Showing posts with label parent ministry activities. Show all posts
Showing posts with label parent ministry activities. Show all posts

Thursday, July 26, 2012

Parent Ministry Sermons: Responsibilities of Fathers

Scripture has many passages on the family relationship, and of fathers and children.  Here are a few of the responsibilities of fathers mentioned in the Bible:
  • Provide for his family (Matthew 7:9-1; 1 Timothy 5:8)
  • Instruct his children (Proverbs 1:8)
  • Exhort, encourage and implore children (1 Thessalonians 2:11)
  • Punish unruly children (Deuteronomy 21:18-21)
  • Raise the children in the discipline and nurture of the Lord without provoking them or exasperating them causing them to lose heart (Ephesians 6:4; Colossians 3:21)
  • Discipline his children (Hebrews 12:7)
  • Love his wife (Ephesians 5:25,28,33)
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Wednesday, July 25, 2012

Parent Ministry Sermons: How to Get Along with Your Parents

How to Get along better with your parents
  • Avoid raising your voice with your parents at any time.One sure way to start a real argument with misunderstandings and hurt feelings is to raise your voice during a discussion. (See Proverbs 15:1)
  • Let God change your parent's minds; that's His job, not yours.
    It is often difficult when your parents refuse to give you permission to do something you really want to do. Take their answer as coming from God Himself and go to Him in prayer about the situation. As you know, God is very powerful and He can work to change your parents' minds.
  • Astound your parents with the over-obeying method.
    It will help your parents know that you are maturing and can handle responsibilities on your own. The next time Dad asks you to wash the car, mow the lawn as well. Or, the next time Mom asks you to do the dishes, maybe clean up the living room as well. Not only will this blow your parents' minds, but, after a few attempts at this method (done sincerely by you, not as a way to manipulate your parents) you will begin to see it pay off!
  • Encourage your parents. 
    Sometimes parents become confused and hesitant also. They need encouragement too!
  • Set a good example for your parents by staying away from alcohol, cigarettes, and drugs.
    Parents tend to copy the languages, styles, and tastes of the young as it is the only reasonable substitute for finding the fountain of youth. The example you set is very important.
  • Be concerned about the outside activities of your parents. 
    Insist that they bring their friends home so you can meet them. Be sure they get to bed at a reasonable hour, especially on weeknights. Wouldn't want them to burn themselves out, would you? Also makes things more enjoyable in the morning if everyone has had a good night's sleep.
  • Carefully watch your parent's activities in the home.
    The effects of television on adults is not the greatest these days. Daytime soap operas are much too strong for the average mother, and fathers may not be able to take all the violence and sex on nighttime shows, especially after a hard days work.
  • Don't be too strict with your parents. 
    Allow them to have some access to the phone, the stereo, or the car. Otherwise they might get jealous and take it out on you.
  • Let them have their way sometimes, especially with the little things.
    If you show you are willing to give in some of the time, they are more likely to cooperate when it is some big deal to you.
  • At least once a week do something nice for your parents.
    The key is to do something before being asked. You will be surprised at the results.
  • Never, never, never do anything to betray their trust in you or make them question your honesty.
    When your parents lose faith in you and it is your fault, you have lost big time.
  • Love them as if you were loving Christ--your home will never be the same!
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Parent Ministry Sermons: My Father

My Father is...My Father….


  • Loving: John 3:16
  • Caring: Matt 6:26
  • Forgiving: Psalm 103:12
  • Compassionate: Psalm 103:4-5
  • Giving: Romans 8:32
  • Understanding: Psalm 139:1-2
  • Accepting: Psalm 139:1-6
  • Satisfies: Psalm 107:9
  • Persistently Pursuing: Luke 19:10
  • Reasonable: Isaiah 1:18
  • Pardons: Psalm 103:3
  • Heals: Isaiah 53:5
  • Redeems: Job 19:25
  • Loving-Kindness: Psalm 86:15
  • Renews: Isaiah 40:31
  • Righteous: Jeremiah 9:23-24
  • Gracious: ephesians 1:7-8
  • Sovereign: Psalm 103:19

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Parent Ministry Activities: The Mother of Mother's Day

Attributed to Paul Harvey?

Anna May Jarvis, quote: "Mother's Day has nothing to do with candy. Candy is junk. You give your mother a box of candy and then go home and eat most of it yourself...."

Anna May Jarvis, quote:
 
"A maudlin, insincere printed card or a ready-made telegram means nothing except that you're too lazy to write to the woman who has done more for you than anyone else in the world. You ought to go home and see your mother on Mother's Day. You ought to take her out and paint the town red...."

Anna May Jarvis, still quoting now:
 
"You ought to give her something useful, something permanent. A lot of mothers are sleeping on mattresses that are as hard as rocks. Maybe she needs new eyeglasses, comfortable shoes, a pair of slippers, or better lighting fixtures. Is she sleeping warm at night? Could she use an eiderdown? Maybe the stairs in her home need fixing. . ."

What about flowers, Anna May?
"Flowers are about half dead by the time they're delivered."

And Anna May goes on to say that she won't rest "until Mother's Day becomes the personal family Memorial Day it was intended to be."

If anyone had the right to speak out against the commercialization of Mother's Day, it was Anna May Jarvis. That second Sunday of thoughtfulness each and every May was Anna's idea in the first place. Anna May Jarvis was the Mother of Mother's Day. Anna May Jarvis, born May 1, 1864.

She was a minister's daughter, described as a quiet, studious girl in school who liked everyone and whom everyone liked. Anna was just two weeks forty-two, working for a life insurance company in Philadelphia, when her mother died on the second Sunday of May, 1906. Friends noticed a change in Anna in the months following that unhappy occasion. No longer the gentle, easygoing woman they knew, Anna became obsessed with but one desire: to see her mother and motherhood honored annually throughout the world. After more than a year of careful planning, Anna arranged the first Mother's Day church service-May 10, 1908-at St. Andrew's Methodist Church in Grafton, West Virginia, where Anna's mother had taught Sunday school. Anna worked hard to promote her idea. A year after that first memorial service in West Virginia, Philadelphia became the first city to proclaim an official Mother's Day. Three years passed. West Virginia made Mother's Day a statewide observance. One year later, in 1914, President Woodrow Wilson signed a proclamation from Congress-a document recorded as Public Resolution 25-to establish the second Sunday in May as Mother's Day forevermore.

And it had all begun with Anna. But Anna, now fifty years old, was not content with her victory. She retired from her job at the insurance company to spend her remaining thirty-four years, and her entire fortune of over a hundred thousand dollars, campaigning against the commercialization of the day she had founded in honor of motherhood. She interrupted florists' conventions to express her remorse at their "profiteering"; wherever there was a forum for her cause, she spoke out. Then one day, when she was too old and too tired to speak out, she was placed penniless, deaf and blind in a West Chester, Pennsylvania, sanitarium. She died there in November of 1948; she was eightyfour.

And if the story of the woman who invented Mother's Day is made even more poignant, it is by the fact that she, Anna, would never benefit from that time of remembrance. For Anna May Jarvis-the Mother of Mother's Day, who devoted her life and her fortune to its reverent observance-was never married and was never a mother.

Parent Ministry Activities: Packing for Summer Youth Camp

Summer youth camp is an exciting time for both teens and parents. But along with the excitement there may be some anxiety and fear as well. It is much easier for parents to send a teen off to youth camp that has had the camp experience before. But it may create a lot of fear and anxiety for a younger teen that has never been away from home and has never been apart from his or her parents for so many days. Of course there will also be other teens who can't wait for the chance to get away from home for a few days. And most parents can appreciate a little break away from the teens for a few days. Even so, a little concern and anxiety on the part of parents is also to be expected. Parents must keep in mind that a well-planned youth camp has great staff and leaders to take care of your youth during their stay.
Packing List for Summer Youth Camp
One of the first things you need to do is time to start making a packing list for the camp. It is important to know what can be taken and what must be left behind. Most camps will provide you a list of items that need to be packed. Some camps require certain clothing and some special equipment. They also may prohibit certain items. When packing for camp, these lists are a great place to start. Another good resource to discover what to pack is to talk to the camp staff. The camp staff will be familiar with the weather, the terrain or requirements for any outdoor camp activities, and they can also offer tips that will make the summer youth camp experience much more enjoyable. If you know parents who have sent their teen to the camp before, they can also be a great resource for packing tips. The key is to find out as much information as you can, then prepare your own packing list.
Summer Youth Camp Recreation Activities
Many summer youth camps offer a variety of recreational activities in addition to the standard camp program. Homesickness is a part of the "first time away from home" camp, but the more activities that suit the desires of your teen, the better. Look through the recreation options with your teen and discuss them. Let the youth negotiate which activities they wish to participate in. Some activities may require special permission from parents. If, for some reason, any activity is off-limits to your youth you will need to make that clear to the camp staff and put it in writing. Some recreational activities may also require youth to pack special equipment or clothing. Most camp registration forms will have a section of the form for parents to complete regarding the recreational activities and permission for the youth to participate in them.
Health Concerns and Safety
If your teen has any health concerns such as allergies, asthma, etc. be sure that the youth camp staff is aware of these. Again, most summer youth camp registration forms will have a section for you to provide this information. Also be sure that any medications your youth needs are sent to the camp along with them. You may be able to pack them in their bag, but some camps will not allow a teen to keep their medications in and around the bunk. If possible, place the medications in the original containers, then pack them all together in a clear plastic bag that is properly labeled. This would not apply to emergency inhalers, but it is something to clear up with the camp staff before your teen leaves for summer youth camp.
Clothing
Don't wait until the week before the your teen is leaving for summer youth camp to start planning your packing. It is also vital to include your teen in the packing process in order for them to be familiar with what they are taking. Some clothing may need to be bought in advance. It's also a good idea to label the clothing discretely inside on the tags with your teen's name or at least their initials. Labeling should extend to everything the youth is packing. Clothing, bathing suits, towels, cameras and anything else that is going into that bag, plus the bag itself. If the summer youth camp has sports activities, field trips or religious services, you will need to also pack the clothing for these functions. There may also be special guidelines such as a one-piece swimsuit for girls, no speedos for the boys, etc. I remember one youth pastor telling the youth to place their swimsuit on the stove-top burner and if it doesn't cover it completely, just turn on the burner and go buy something more modest. If the summer youth camp offers crafting opportunities, you may want to send along some clothes that are not new. Painting and crafts can be messy and are not the easiest thing to remove from clothes. Also, don't forget rain gear. Summer youth camps don't curtail every activity just because it may be raining.
Packing
A large duffel bag may be the best way to pack everything inside for the camp. Many of them now come with wheels and are easier to transport and to store once they are empty. The age of your teen needs to be taken into consideration. If your teen is going to summer youth camp on a bus or public transportation, it will be important to have something they can handle. Wheels will help. Personal items should be packed in a separate bag within the larger bag. Toiletries should be in a handy bag that can be taken to the bathing facilities. Items such as toothbrush, soap, towels and washcloths, comb, brush, shampoo should be stored in this bag for packing. Keep the soap in a traveling soap dish as well as the toothbrush in a toothbrush holder. It may not come home that way, but at least it is a good start. In fact, you should probably expect the loss of a few items at the youth camp. Expect it and pack accordingly. Then you won't be upset if something doesn't return or it is returned in a less than ideal condition.
Little Extras
Pack some self-addressed postcards that will help your teen remember to drop a note home. This will prevent them from using their spending money on postage and allow them to keep in touch with you during their absence. You might also add some personal notes of encouragement in their belongings. Even though it was many years ago that I attended a summer youth camp as a camper, I still remember the little notes of encouragement my mom packed in my belongings. They were tucked away in shirt pockets, pants pockets, and many other unexpected places that didn't embarrass me as a youth, but reminded me that my family loved me and missed me. Some other things to consider packing, with the permission of the camp staff, are cameras, CD/MP3 players, and games. Books are a great addition for evenings when the campfire is over, as well.
With a little advance planning, packing for and attending summer youth camp can be a great experience for youth and parents alike.

Parent Ministry Ideas: Crucify

The people stood yelling, “Crucify!”
and it breaks our hearts every time.
For Jesus’ death occurs every time
someone is ignored, mistreated, oppressed.
“Crucify!”
tears away at God’s Beloved.